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The Sleep Diaries: Do Men and Women Dream Differently?

The first thing I heard when I woke up yesterday morning was “I just almost killed a guy!” Believe it or not, I wasn’t at a crime scene—I was safe in my own bed, trying to catch my last precious moments of shut-eye before <a href="">links ring</a> I faced the workday. My husband, on the other hand, was apparently in grave danger. Fortunately, I know him so well that I could guess right away that he wasn’t even fully awake yet, despite his vigorous grunts and kicks as <a href="">links of london sweetie ring</a> he defended himself from his imaginary assailant. But his outburst got me thinking—is it just my husband who seems to have violent dreams on a regular basis, or is it a phenomenon that men in general experience? And what about women—do they also spend their nights fighting off attackers, or do they dream about babies <a href="">links of london charm bracelets</a> and clothes and other stereotypically female subjects?Separate but Equal
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