There's never a right time to say goodbye......
I have to say that I haven’t visited this site much for a while now and not because of anything to do with Chris, if I am being completely honest I don’t come on here anymore because of the people. I’ll come on here every once and a while and start to read the post and after reading about two, give or take, I have to leave. I am completely overwhelmed with the post that I have read lately and frankly it is so annoying and the immaturity has started to show. I don’t know how many adults come on here (I am in my 20’s) and I often wonder if I am too old to visit this site. I often rationalize with myself to continue, by reminding myself that we all share a common interest. I have had some great conversations with many of you and read some really insightful things. Unfortunately lately this has not been the case. The reasons I began visiting this site and writing post has been lost. The commonality that I once felt with many of you is gone. I feel like this forum has lost focus and spun completely out of control. The more I read, the more out of place I feel. I can remember once discussing this site with some of my friends and telling them how impressed I was by many of the things that I read from some of you. I recognize that most of you are teenagers, and I hope I don’t offend anyone, but I didn’t really expect some of the mature intelligent things that were said, but I don’t feel like I can stand by that anymore. Please DO NOT take this as an attack on any of you, and I am not grouping you all together. There are some really mature insightful individuals on this site and there are some very immature inexperienced people here as well. Unfortunately for me I have been bombarded by very juvenile post which has made me rethink the validity of this website in my life. This forum used to be so positive and now I all I see is darkness and negativity. I keep coming back every once in a while hoping that I will see something different hoping that things have changed but I am confronted with the same bulls*** day in and day out and I have to say I am extremely uncomfortable with the status quo. Never mind that Chris now has 2 songs (Kiss Kiss #4 and With You #6) in the top 10 of the Hot 100 Billboard Chart which is amazing, most artist cant get 1 song in the top 10 let alone 2 but lets not talk about that right, lets talk about things that have absolutely nothing to do with us doesnt really impact our lives and frankly is none of our damn business!! I don’t want to be apart of this and I don’t want to be associated with this forum if this is the path we are going to continue on. I can tell that I don’t want to read these posts anymore based off the titles. I know that this isn’t going to bother any of yall in the least bit and you aren’t going to loose any sleep over what I have said and I’m not mad at ya for it. I guess I just needed to get this off my chest because this quite possibly is my last post. I have to decide if I can, in good conscious, continue to support this forum. I wish that I had the room or the time to say more because I could go for days I have so much to say, but I wont bore you any longer. I hope that my faith will soon be restored in this forum and this can be a legit fan site once again but if I do not return good luck to all of yall in everything that you do and to some of you I hope that you one day soon gain the maturity, experience, and insight needed to get you through what can be a tough cruel world. For the most part I have thoroughly enjoyed my time here (up until now of course) and the conversations I have had. I ask you kindly that no one turns this into a negative attack on me as I have seen how quickly some of these posts can get out of control. Please just think about what I have said, agree or disagree it really doesn’t matter, it is what it is. I read this somewhere and I really loved it so I want to share it with all of you “You’re so busy watching the second-hand that you missed the minute hand go by, learn what time it is and keep it moving” Thanks for reading my two cents.
Farewell???? (IDK)
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That is real deep wat u said about people attacking u, n how u just came right out wit ur feelings and how u wont visit this site that much anymore.
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if you talk to chris then gurl it would be okay don't wurry about it.








